
Men Get Cheated on too: Understanding Masculine Betrayal Trauma
A Talk by Adam Nisenson LMFT, CSAT (Betrayal Shrink)
About this Talk
Masculine Betrayal Trauma (MBT Recovery) describes the emotional and psychological distress men experience when faced with a partner's infidelity. This trauma deeply affects a man's sense of self and ego, triggering a range of intense emotions such as shock, anger, jealousy, and an acute sense of betrayal.
These feelings are often magnified by societal pressures on masculinity, which influence how men perceive themselves and handle emotional pain. Men coping with Masculine Betrayal Trauma frequently struggle with self-doubt, questioning their worth and adequacy as partners. This internal conflict can lead to depression, social withdrawal, reduced work performance, and difficulty expressing vulnerability. For many, MBT challenges long-held beliefs about strength, masculinity, and emotional expression, forcing them to confront and redefine these ideas.
At its core, Masculine Betrayal Trauma is not only about navigating pain but also about transformation. Men facing this trauma often reevaluate their relationships and self-identity, embarking on a journey of personal growth and resilience.
By addressing these complex emotions and societal expectations, men can begin to heal, find clarity, and rebuild their lives with newfound strength and self-awareness.